I wanna start 2020, right!

Once you love, You will love again ..so don’t fear! Here are the signs toxic people who stop you from moving forward, or better yet you stop yourself!

1. You Talk About Them a Lot 2. You Lose Your Temper because of them 3. Your #Self-esteem Dwindles 4. You Blame Them for Your Behavior 5. You Dread Spending Time With Them 6. You Stoop to Their Level

7. You Don’t Set Healthy Boundaries – it goes like this “If you can’t beat them, join them,” you may start behaving in a way that isn’t by your values. Stooping to a #toxic person’s level ultimately creates more chaos. 8. You Resort to #Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms 9. Your #Relationships Suffer with them and mainly with yourself Limit a Toxic Person’s Influence

If toxic people are getting the best of you, it’s important to limit their influence. In some cases, that may mean refusing to waste time thinking about that person. In more serious cases, it may mean cutting a toxic person out of your life! Let’s begin in 2020 with a BANG! I’m ready! let's reduce the toxicity in the order we deal better with the ride ahead when bumps appear out of nowhere! I have begun doing this a few years back! In 2016 I removed a person who was simply good in many ways but terrible in other ways, therefore I finally made that decision to cut them off! Don’t have the stamina for emotional vampires! Life is like surfing! Learn the water condition, wax your #board, put on the right outfit for the #surf ..paddle through the white water and then sit for the waves of your life! And if it throws you off then I hope you already know the rules of not drowning ..Get back on the board immediately